Step one. Finding the right lolita clothes 認定ザ·右洋服
Being a lolita is a free world. You don't have to be told what to do by other people, you are being you! Finding the right fashion, is finding the style of lolita that you fit most, that fits your personality most. For example, are you a sweet lolita, a classic lolita, or a gothic lolita.
Sweet lolitas are the lolitas who wear a lot of cute (kawaii) bright colourful outfits.
Classic lolitas can be a mix
And gothic lolitas are the lolitas who wear dark clothing.
You can find my listings on the cheap (but good quality) lolita stores online here: http://lolitakawaiifashion.blogspot.co.uk/2013/12/cheap-lolita-fashion.html
Step two. Taking baby steps.小ステップ
For your first time, unless you are super super confident, just put on something simple, like a big bow
headband. Walk to your parents, friends or just outside. You will soon become more confident after a while.
Step three. Add on more.加える
Add on more accessories. Keep doing this each day. For example, for day one you could wear a hair bow, for day two you could wear a hair bow and a lollipop necklace, for day three you could wear a hair bow a lollipop necklace and a japanese ring etc until you become more confident in Lolita fashion.
Now, once you think you are confident enough, pull out that wig, petticoat and dress. If you still aren't confident enough, then wear one of these big things each day, until you are confident you can wear them altogether!
I really hoped this helped you. These were the tips that helped me, and I hope it worked on you as-swell!